Why is self-love important?

Self love is a very important thing.It might be in the form of making yourself the best, maintaining yourself, caring about small things regarding your personality, or loving the way Allah has created you. Self love is known as ( khud pasandi) in Urdu. Yes it is true that self love may lead to arrogance, hate for other people and makes you thing that you are the best.Even sometimes accepting your own faults becomes hard because you think that you are perfect in every way.
But if you do something in moderation and a positive way then nothing harms you.Well my opinion is that you should at least like your own self. Take care of your own and accept the way you are. 

Many girls just can not accept that they are beautiful enough.Yes they might be very special and attractive in front of other's eyes but they never feel that its true.
So even if someone compliments them (specially opposite gender) they feel the person is lying or making fun of their body. Low self esteem had made them so nervous to deal the compliments, they never feel blushed and they take it opposite.Because they don't like their own self. Never tried to smile in front of mirror.

They hesitate to come in front of mirror or even the camera.They hate the way they are created.Whether it's height, weight, color, hair or anything else. They just can not accept the way they are. Or sometimes failing in something may also make them depressed.Then they wonder that  he/she is wrong and tell what they exactly thing about them selves.Not every time people take things positively.Some might encourage them and motivate to love them selves. But no some of them will instead scold them.The person will think that you are trying to get more compliments or are showing off that you are a fairy from Heaven. 

It's sad ....isn't it?

Yes there are people of this mentality too.Girls fear of getting in a relationship they cannot maintain or of the fear that what if their elders found about this.Still that person will think the same claiming that the girl is attention seeker.She is doing to grasp some attention and is just over reacting so that he insists her. No he does not knows her side. Her weakness and problems.







So girls just accept the way you are. Never hesitate in front of camera or mirror. Make memories because the passed time is better then the present. just maintain yourself and reach your goals which high self esteem. If you can not accept your own self then don,t pour your feelings in front of someone else. The world is cruel.it will take your side but will do its best to tease you and harm you. Nobody is more sincere then Parents.Everyone is else is mean.Feel confident and then no one will ever try to harm you! 

You can do this Girl!! Just Love yourself and be positive.   ^_^